Toinho 2,210 Posted April 4, 2019 Share Posted April 4, 2019 3 hours ago, Cannabis said: @Toinho's girlfriend for those that are interested: Slighter less pale than that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Subscriber JoshBRFC+ 1,388 Posted August 9, 2019 Subscriber Share Posted August 9, 2019 Split up with the Mother of my child. Shame really, but it just wasn't working any more. I've had quite a few issues in the past and hurt her as a result. So it's mainly down to me and my mental health in the past.. which stems from the death of my Father. We've had tricky patches before, but this is it now. She even said she thinks she makes me worse and i agree. We but especially me need to be alone. I've been out for a week and viewing houses and just keeping busy with work. I'm actually looking forward to living on my own and making a nice home for my daughter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrator Stan 18,349 Posted August 9, 2019 Administrator Share Posted August 9, 2019 59 minutes ago, JOSHBRFC said: Split up with the Mother of my child. Shame really, but it just wasn't working any more. I've had quite a few issues in the past and hurt her as a result. So it's mainly down to me and my mental health in the past.. which stems from the death of my Father. We've had tricky patches before, but this is it now. She even said she thinks she makes me worse and i agree. We but especially me need to be alone. I've been out for a week and viewing houses and just keeping busy with work. I'm actually looking forward to living on my own and making a nice home for my daughter. Sad to hear but sounds like it's for the best? Sounds like it's been quite amicable and you both realise it's what needs to be done for the benefit of your daughter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eco 3,008 Posted August 9, 2019 Share Posted August 9, 2019 1 hour ago, JOSHBRFC said: Split up with the Mother of my child. Shame really, but it just wasn't working any more. I've had quite a few issues in the past and hurt her as a result. So it's mainly down to me and my mental health in the past.. which stems from the death of my Father. We've had tricky patches before, but this is it now. She even said she thinks she makes me worse and i agree. We but especially me need to be alone. I've been out for a week and viewing houses and just keeping busy with work. I'm actually looking forward to living on my own and making a nice home for my daughter. Sorry to hear mate. If it is any consoliation, I have say from personal experience that having happy parents not together, is better than having parents together that aren't happy. Hope things work out for you, especially the mental health stuff as I know that even though you are a father, you still need to take care of you. Best of luck mate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Subscriber RandoEFC+ 7,640 Posted August 10, 2019 Subscriber Share Posted August 10, 2019 On 09/08/2019 at 12:34, JOSHBRFC said: Split up with the Mother of my child. Shame really, but it just wasn't working any more. I've had quite a few issues in the past and hurt her as a result. So it's mainly down to me and my mental health in the past.. which stems from the death of my Father. We've had tricky patches before, but this is it now. She even said she thinks she makes me worse and i agree. We but especially me need to be alone. I've been out for a week and viewing houses and just keeping busy with work. I'm actually looking forward to living on my own and making a nice home for my daughter. That's horrible to hear mate but glad you're looking at the positives and opportunities. Mental health is a massive issue and I'm glad more people are starting to have the conversation about how we can all help each other out, and how the NHS can better accommodate these issues as well as physical ones in future. Drop us a PM if you ever feel the need. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MUFC 1,494 Posted August 26, 2019 Share Posted August 26, 2019 What's the longest it's taken you to get over a break up? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrator Stan 18,349 Posted August 27, 2019 Administrator Share Posted August 27, 2019 Things going very well Got plans for engagement and wedding within next couple years. Her family are great. She's met mine and they all get on well. Couldn't ask for more right now! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderator Tommy 12,601 Posted August 27, 2019 Moderator Share Posted August 27, 2019 2 hours ago, Stan said: Things going very well Got plans for engagement and wedding within next couple years. Her family are great. She's met mine and they all get on well. Couldn't ask for more right now! Forgive me if this is an ignorant question. But are you, potentially, allowed to date outside of your own ethnicity? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrator Stan 18,349 Posted August 27, 2019 Administrator Share Posted August 27, 2019 6 minutes ago, Tommy said: Forgive me if this is an ignorant question. But are you, potentially, allowed to date outside of your own ethnicity? Yep. My parents are quite liberal as opposed to your more traditional Asian parents. They've always said as long as I'm happy they'd support me. I know they're preference is always a Gujarati Indian girl (which my current gf is) but wouldn't be end of the world of not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderator Tommy 12,601 Posted August 27, 2019 Moderator Share Posted August 27, 2019 4 minutes ago, Stan said: Yep. My parents are quite liberal as opposed to your more traditional Asian parents. They've always said as long as I'm happy they'd support me. I know they're preference is always a Gujarati Indian girl (which my current gf is) but wouldn't be end of the world of not. Ah okay, I see. I was just curious. You two look great together btw Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harry 1,437 Posted August 27, 2019 Share Posted August 27, 2019 2 hours ago, Stan said: Things going very well Got plans for engagement and wedding within next couple years. Her family are great. She's met mine and they all get on well. Couldn't ask for more right now! That's awesome mate! Congrats! Easy on the eye too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harry 1,437 Posted August 27, 2019 Share Posted August 27, 2019 This is the family. All chugging along pretty well at the moment. Wife is on maternity leave for another few month's before we'll need to find a way to go back to two incomes again. The little one (Zara) has been a tricky baby compared to the first but seems to be getting over that point now at eight months and being much more delightful. Currently giving her the night time milk bottle... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beelzebub 2,508 Posted August 27, 2019 Share Posted August 27, 2019 One day i will be able to make valuable contributions to this thread Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrator Stan 18,349 Posted August 27, 2019 Administrator Share Posted August 27, 2019 57 minutes ago, Tommy said: Ah okay, I see. I was just curious. You two look great together btw 44 minutes ago, Harry said: That's awesome mate! Congrats! Easy on the eye too! Cheers lads. @Harry I agree mate. She is as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrator Stan 18,349 Posted August 27, 2019 Administrator Share Posted August 27, 2019 10 minutes ago, Stick With Azeem said: One day i will be able to make valuable contributions to this thread I'm sure the right guy is just around the corner for you mate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harry 1,437 Posted August 27, 2019 Share Posted August 27, 2019 34 minutes ago, Stick With Azeem said: One day i will be able to make valuable contributions to this thread Would you be subject to an arranged marriage mate? If so do you know who you would be paired with? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluewolf 7,161 Posted August 27, 2019 Share Posted August 27, 2019 1 hour ago, Stan said: I'm sure the right guy is just around the corner for you mate. What are you like.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beelzebub 2,508 Posted August 27, 2019 Share Posted August 27, 2019 10 minutes ago, Harry said: Would you be subject to an arranged marriage mate? If so do you know who you would be paired with? Arranged marriage in the sense that my parents introduce me to someone and i also find her interesting ? Very likely, but in the sense that I'm tied up with someone not at all. With Asian parents you can never know though, they can come up with the most unlikely contender Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eco 3,008 Posted August 27, 2019 Share Posted August 27, 2019 1 hour ago, Stan said: Yep. My parents are quite liberal as opposed to your more traditional Asian parents. They've always said as long as I'm happy they'd support me. I know they're preference is always a Gujarati Indian girl (which my current gf is) but wouldn't be end of the world of not. How large is the Gujarati population? I play tennis with 4 men from India, all with Indian wives, and I also run with 3 more, two of which are married. I also work with an Indian guy, and all of them are Gujarati! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrator Stan 18,349 Posted August 27, 2019 Administrator Share Posted August 27, 2019 19 minutes ago, Bluewolf said: What are you like.... You're only annoyed that I beat you to the joke 5 minutes ago, Eco said: How large is the Gujarati population? I play tennis with 4 men from India, all with Indian wives, and I also run with 3 more, two of which are married. I also work with an Indian guy, and all of them are Gujarati! In UK not sure mate. Around where I live it's big enough to have a few associations in Milton Keynes, Bedford, Luton, Northampton etc to hold events especially around festive times i.e. Diwali. But having said that, those associations aren't just for Gujaratis but they predominantly make up the attendance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
True Blue 971 Posted August 27, 2019 Share Posted August 27, 2019 In a month it's my one year anniversary of being married Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eco 3,008 Posted August 27, 2019 Share Posted August 27, 2019 20 minutes ago, True Blue said: In a month it's my one year anniversary of being married Congrats. It certaintly flies by. Wife and I just celebrated our 5 years, and in January it will be 8 years together. Crazy that it's been that long. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
True Blue 971 Posted August 27, 2019 Share Posted August 27, 2019 Just now, Eco said: Congrats. It certaintly flies by. Wife and I just celebrated our 5 years, and in January it will be 8 years together. Crazy that it's been that long. Congrats mate, we dated for around 4-5 years and lived together for the past three including the last. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toinho 2,210 Posted August 27, 2019 Share Posted August 27, 2019 53 minutes ago, True Blue said: In a month it's my one year anniversary of being married Hope he’s treating you well x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
True Blue 971 Posted August 27, 2019 Share Posted August 27, 2019 1 minute ago, Toinho said: Hope he’s treating you well x He is mate thank you x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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