Mpache 672 Posted June 4, 2020 Share Posted June 4, 2020 10 minutes ago, Inti Brian said: A little bit of news from my side... There's this girl I like. We're really close friends and I want to tell her. However, I've had experiences that even with close friends she would lose interest in me at all once I say it. I just don't want to freak her out by letting her know... should I say it confidently or cautiously? Think I won't actually. It's an opportunity for me because I feel we're close enough for it to be a possibility, but I don't think it's really worth the risk. The odds seem against me for a relationship, not because she might say no but rather because the conditions seem a bit tough (long distance, and that if it doesn't work after a month I've lost a close friend) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrator Stan 18,380 Posted June 4, 2020 Administrator Share Posted June 4, 2020 20 minutes ago, Inti Brian said: A little bit of news from my side... There's this girl I like. We're really close friends and I want to tell her. However, I've had experiences that even with close friends she would lose interest in me at all once I say it. I just don't want to freak her out by letting her know... should I say it confidently or cautiously? 8 minutes ago, Inti Brian said: Think I won't actually. It's an opportunity for me because I feel we're close enough for it to be a possibility, but I don't think it's really worth the risk. The odds seem against me for a relationship, not because she might say no but rather because the conditions seem a bit tough (long distance, and that if it doesn't work after a month I've lost a close friend) Glad we could help! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toinho 2,210 Posted June 9, 2020 Share Posted June 9, 2020 Tough situation Solano but I tried to turn a good friendship into a relationship a long time ago... didn’t work... he ended up bald and married with lots of kids. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mpache 672 Posted June 10, 2020 Share Posted June 10, 2020 On 09/06/2020 at 08:12, Toinho said: Tough situation Solano but I tried to turn a good friendship into a relationship a long time ago... didn’t work... he ended up bald and married with lots of kids. Thanks. Generally I’m down in the dumps about this whole matter. It’s not that I want a girlfriend so much, it’s that I want more support coming out if the blue, instead of asking people “hey support me” in other words I’m feeling lonely. Ive tried a number of things. Dating sites turned out to be a stupid idea. All the girls think they are 9’s or 10’s. Then the situation above I said something today. I feel it annoyed her a bit, so I few even worse now... i havent had a girlfriend in 4 years, so I am not entirely sure where it’s gone wrong for me. Guess I’ve gotten too fat! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Subscriber Storts+ 2,424 Posted June 10, 2020 Subscriber Share Posted June 10, 2020 On 09/06/2020 at 13:12, Toinho said: Tough situation Solano but I tried to turn a good friendship into a relationship a long time ago... didn’t work... he ended up bald and married with lots of kids. This deserved a lot more love @DeadLinesman Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beelzebub 2,508 Posted June 24, 2020 Share Posted June 24, 2020 If a girl just texts you Hi what does it mean ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Subscriber nudge+ 15,325 Posted June 24, 2020 Subscriber Share Posted June 24, 2020 4 minutes ago, Azeem said: If a girl just texts you Hi what does it mean ? That she's not able to string together a coherent sentence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluewolf 7,161 Posted June 24, 2020 Share Posted June 24, 2020 7 minutes ago, Azeem said: If a girl just texts you Hi what does it mean ? Details man, details.... How do you know this girl??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beelzebub 2,508 Posted June 24, 2020 Share Posted June 24, 2020 13 minutes ago, Bluewolf said: Details man, details.... How do you know this girl??? Girl from Uni, were part of a team project, haven't met or talked to her for about three months until she just texted Hi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Subscriber RandoEFC+ 7,661 Posted June 24, 2020 Subscriber Share Posted June 24, 2020 3 minutes ago, Azeem said: Girl from Uni, were part of a team project, haven't met or talked to her for about three months until she just texted Hi Mate she's practically begging for it. And I'm only mostly joking. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eco 3,008 Posted June 24, 2020 Share Posted June 24, 2020 11 minutes ago, Azeem said: Girl from Uni, were part of a team project, haven't met or talked to her for about three months until she just texted Hi Did you text her first? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beelzebub 2,508 Posted June 24, 2020 Share Posted June 24, 2020 6 minutes ago, Eco said: Did you text her first? Nope Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beelzebub 2,508 Posted June 24, 2020 Share Posted June 24, 2020 We use to talk quite a lot for work either on text or in person but haven't since this virus started Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eco 3,008 Posted June 24, 2020 Share Posted June 24, 2020 Just now, Azeem said: Nope Text her back. Maybe it's a late night rendezvous. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluewolf 7,161 Posted June 24, 2020 Share Posted June 24, 2020 20 minutes ago, Azeem said: Girl from Uni, were part of a team project, haven't met or talked to her for about three months until she just texted Hi 1 minute ago, Azeem said: We use to talk quite a lot for work either on text or in person but haven't since this virus started Well text her back and see how she is doing.. take it from there, she might be keen on you, do you like her??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrator Stan 18,380 Posted June 24, 2020 Administrator Share Posted June 24, 2020 1 hour ago, Azeem said: If a girl just texts you Hi what does it mean ? She just wants a conversation and you shouldn't read too much in to a greeting via text. Maybe she wants something. Maybe she's reaching out. If you're struggling at the 'hi' stage of a conversation I do wonder how it will bode when the big stuff like 'how are you?' comes along and kicks in Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beelzebub 2,508 Posted June 25, 2020 Share Posted June 25, 2020 Yeah she said she wanted to talk and know how things are going, just had a little chit chat but I'm still on to that Hi, girls are fully aware what kind of gestures they make and a simple Hi can be interpreted in anyway Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devil-Dick Willie 3,253 Posted June 25, 2020 Share Posted June 25, 2020 If I get a "Hi" post midnight it's usually worth responding to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrator Stan 18,380 Posted July 15, 2020 Administrator Share Posted July 15, 2020 Just confirmed dates for next year for our civil ceremony and Indian wedding Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Subscriber nudge+ 15,325 Posted July 15, 2020 Subscriber Share Posted July 15, 2020 5 hours ago, Stan said: Just confirmed dates for next year for our civil ceremony and Indian wedding Will it be as huge as I imagine? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrator Stan 18,380 Posted July 15, 2020 Administrator Share Posted July 15, 2020 12 minutes ago, nudge said: Will it be as huge as I imagine? Haha nope! And that's not because of COVID-19 either! Myself and fiancé both wanted small. But even then, it's 250+ people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Subscriber nudge+ 15,325 Posted July 15, 2020 Subscriber Share Posted July 15, 2020 2 minutes ago, Stan said: Haha nope! And that's not because of COVID-19 either! Myself and fiancé both wanted small. But even then, it's 250+ people That's still damn huge Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrator Stan 18,380 Posted July 15, 2020 Administrator Share Posted July 15, 2020 25 minutes ago, nudge said: That's still damn huge Thanks, but back to the wedding... The civil ceremony will be much smaller. 80 people... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toinho 2,210 Posted July 17, 2020 Share Posted July 17, 2020 On 16/07/2020 at 00:49, Stan said: Haha nope! And that's not because of COVID-19 either! Myself and fiancé both wanted small. But even then, it's 250+ people That’s heaps of people haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrator Stan 18,380 Posted July 17, 2020 Administrator Share Posted July 17, 2020 5 hours ago, Toinho said: That’s heaps of people haha I know Small for our standards! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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