I think what you think they can do, and what they actually can do, is starkly different.
This is obviously the hope, but it also leans on the leaders of both sides to show a bit of leeway to allow this to even be considered. Currently, it's rockets vs rockets, you flatten this building, we'll flatten that one. Oh and cut off the supply of food, fuel, water, energy etc to where you live.
I get the sense you want everything to be done on the Palestinian civilians side, but don't see you calling for Israeli civilians to 'rise up' against their government too. Does that make them complicit in the murder of any Palestinian civilians, too?