A few points to take from this:
- I don't deny or ignore your own experiences (you know I wouldn't!)
- I go back to the point that at 15, I doubt this was the first and immediate time she was being groomed. It probably started well before then. And when you've been coerced and controlled for potentially years before that, the decision is almost out of your hands by the time you get told that you're leaving the country. It's that 'brainwashing' thing - when you're 9, 10 or 11 how much do you really know (or care) about the world? Do we know anything about her childhood leading up to her leaving the UK? At that younger age, once you get picked up or groomed by someone, they hold so much on you and against you it's very difficult to get out of it - I've seen it first hand in my line of work just how easily kids (without a parent/both parents), get targeted and taken advantage of and used. They get all the fancy clothes and gadgets and privileges but that is so easily held against them. And that's just the beginning of the essence of grooming a child.
- Regarding the last point - I agree; some have sadly slipped through the net and caused heinous terrorist acts and deaths. Not denying that either. But, as much as I hate the government we have right now, I doubt it's just those that have slipped through and that's it. There's probably hundreds and hundreds they've a) continued to watch and keep surveillance on and b) actually stopped other attacks happening. I don't trust the government at all but even they wouldn't be so blind or dumb enough to realise that she is in the public eye so they'd actually need to do something productive when keeping tracks on her.