The wife is petrified of doctors and hospitals and years ago when we lived down South she had a cyst on her back, I wouldn't say it was big but it started to seep and her Doc told her she would have to get it removed, I ended up getting one of the family down from Scotland to chum her to a private clinic and get it removed as she kept telling me to get lost when I told her she had to go.
Her big sis came down and the wife did not tell her to get lost as knowing Pat she would have dragged her there, end of story.