Who said anything about college?
And as long as your use your disabilities to hold you back, then you'll never overcome it. I have known people much further on the spectrum who have done great things and made a living for themselves, the major difference is they didn't use it as a crutch. Just my two cents.
And I can't help but think that when you say non-profit, you just mean they didn't make any money, which in terms of business, is VERY different from being non-profit.