What hypocrisy? Genuine question.
Are we talking about the perpetuation of a few urban myths like the ghost of Kiev being as unforgivable as the systematic, state-sponsored propaganda from the Russian government to lay the groundwork for an unprovoked invasion and genocide? Is that the hypocrisy?
1. We do not want war. Russia chose to go to war, Ukraine did not. No hypocrisy.
2. The opposite party alone is guilty of war. Russia invaded Ukraine. Not vice versa. Unless you blame Ukraine for fighting back? No hypocrisy.
3. The enemy is inherently evil and resembles the devil. I'd say Putin alone is pretty close to evil. We’ve already talked about sympathies for the Russian soldiers who have been lied to about their cause. Shut up was the only one who really chose to die on that hill and he's been banned from the forum for what followed so it's not like this is a majority opinion.
4. We defend a noble cause, not our own interests. Again, is it really hypocritical to say Ukraine's cause, defending themselves against an unprovoked invasion, is a bit more noble than Russia's leadership trying to wipe another country off the map?
I'm not doing the rest as I have to get back to work. The worst you could level at Ukraine is that they've allowed some of their own falsehoods and propaganda such as the Ghost of Kiev thing to spread. This is not the same level as Russia's propaganda and aggression though. The majority of those falsehoods, Russia could be accused of, many of them without a scintilla of an argument to the contrary. I'm not saying that Ukraine are innocent of every single one but it's a bit easier to forgive when they're a) the weaker of the two parties and b) not the aggressor.
I'm open to being convinced otherwise but it does just smack of people trying to show how much cleverer they are by choosing and justifying a position that differs or appears to be more nuanced to the majority. If you genuinely think that Ukraine are just as bad as Russia though and that it's therefore "hypocritical" of Russia to receive the vast majority of criticism for the events of this conflict, then I worry for you.