Spike Posted February 25, 2023 Share Posted February 25, 2023 Thanks to everyone for the birthday wishes except Deadlinesmen and Stan 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goku de la Boca Posted February 26, 2023 Share Posted February 26, 2023 Last night I had my birthday reunion, late because I could only do it at this point earliest. It just made me realize I should step away from my social life for a bit. Sadly, I lack serious social skills thanks to my conditions but I still feel this can be worked around a bit, and I want to focus on that. Basically I felt constantly interrupted in conversations, and couldn't jump into the others conversations. I know they love me because they gave me a birthday card and cake signed and bought by everyone, but I just felt very uncomfortable and broke down at around 11 PM, to the point I had to abandon and go upstairs. I really enjoy being social, but the only thing that I am truly passionate about is my job, I'm happy where I am and love the person I am, but acknowledge there is still room for improvement. I've decided to go back to therapy just to calmly work on myself a bit more. On the other hand, I made some good food yesterday. Introduced Poutine to most of that group, haha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spike Posted February 26, 2023 Share Posted February 26, 2023 19 minutes ago, Goku de la Boca said: Last night I had my birthday reunion, late because I could only do it at this point earliest. It just made me realize I should step away from my social life for a bit. Sadly, I lack serious social skills thanks to my conditions but I still feel this can be worked around a bit, and I want to focus on that. Basically I felt constantly interrupted in conversations, and couldn't jump into the others conversations. I know they love me because they gave me a birthday card and cake signed and bought by everyone, but I just felt very uncomfortable and broke down at around 11 PM, to the point I had to abandon and go upstairs. I really enjoy being social, but the only thing that I am truly passionate about is my job, I'm happy where I am and love the person I am, but acknowledge there is still room for improvement. I've decided to go back to therapy just to calmly work on myself a bit more. On the other hand, I made some good food yesterday. Introduced Poutine to most of that group, haha. Interruptions or people that often do that, really don’t realise they are doing it. It stems either from their own lack of understanding social cues or excitement. I can get interruptive when I’m excited by a topic. So don’t take it personally, depending on the situation it could just mean people are having fun and are stimulated 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whiskey Posted February 26, 2023 Share Posted February 26, 2023 On 25/02/2023 at 01:39, Spike said: Thanks to everyone for the birthday wishes except Deadlinesmen and Stan Sorry for the belated birthday wishes, hope you had a shit day x 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spike Posted February 26, 2023 Share Posted February 26, 2023 Just now, Whiskey said: Sorry for the belated birthday wishes, hope you had a shit day x Thanks, it was like watching Everton play. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whiskey Posted February 26, 2023 Share Posted February 26, 2023 Just now, Spike said: Thanks, it was like watching Everton play. You poor bastard. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrator Stan Posted February 26, 2023 Administrator Share Posted February 26, 2023 On 25/02/2023 at 01:39, Spike said: Thanks to everyone for the birthday wishes except Deadlinesmen and Stan You've never said happy birthday to me so fuck you. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spike Posted February 26, 2023 Share Posted February 26, 2023 2 minutes ago, Stan said: You've never said happy birthday to me so fuck you. Ooooh aaah touchy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrator Stan Posted February 26, 2023 Administrator Share Posted February 26, 2023 1 minute ago, Spike said: Ooooh aaah touchy Nah, just messing. I see the conversations you have with DDW and you're always giving each other verbals, you must be used to it Hope you had a great birthday nonetheless. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danny Posted February 26, 2023 Share Posted February 26, 2023 Happy belated birthday @Spike! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderator Tommy Posted February 26, 2023 Moderator Share Posted February 26, 2023 2 hours ago, Stan said: You've never said happy birthday to me so fuck you. lol, whenever I see that it's someone's Birthday on Facebook, I check our Friendship thing to see if they congratulated me previously. If they didn't, they can get fucked. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrator Stan Posted February 26, 2023 Administrator Share Posted February 26, 2023 Just now, Tommy said: lol, whenever I see that it's someone's Birthday on Facebook, I check our Friendship thing to see if they congratulated me previously. If they didn't, they can get fucked. You're my hero. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whiskey Posted February 26, 2023 Share Posted February 26, 2023 1 minute ago, Tommy said: lol, whenever I see that it's someone's Birthday on Facebook, I check our Friendship thing to see if they congratulated me previously. If they didn't, they can get fucked. So thats why you never pop up on my timeline anymore. f u dead 2 me. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderator Tommy Posted February 26, 2023 Moderator Share Posted February 26, 2023 1 minute ago, Whiskey said: So thats why you never pop up on my timeline anymore. f u dead 2 me. Check your facebook. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goku de la Boca Posted February 26, 2023 Share Posted February 26, 2023 I am tempted to break the bank, buy the forum, ban Phil with superglue + his IP and then return the forum to Rab or whoever owns it. I am considering it. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Subscriber nudge+ Posted February 26, 2023 Subscriber Share Posted February 26, 2023 11 minutes ago, Tommy said: lol, whenever I see that it's someone's Birthday on Facebook, I check our Friendship thing to see if they congratulated me previously. If they didn't, they can get fucked. Now that's the level of pettiness I can get behind 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrator Stan Posted February 26, 2023 Administrator Share Posted February 26, 2023 3 minutes ago, Goku de la Boca said: I am tempted to break the bank, buy the forum, ban Phil with superglue + his IP and then return the forum to Rab or whoever owns it. I am considering it. I'll ban you before you even get a chance Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whiskey Posted February 26, 2023 Share Posted February 26, 2023 3 minutes ago, Goku de la Boca said: I am tempted to break the bank, buy the forum, ban Phil with superglue + his IP and then return the forum to Rab or whoever owns it. I am considering it. omg hahaha that would be sick haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goku de la Boca Posted February 26, 2023 Share Posted February 26, 2023 Just now, Stan said: I'll ban you before you even get a chance I mean, I could still buy the forum while banned. Money talks! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrator Stan Posted February 26, 2023 Administrator Share Posted February 26, 2023 3 minutes ago, Goku de la Boca said: I mean, I could still buy the forum while banned. Money talks! Put your money where your mouth is! Donate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goku de la Boca Posted February 26, 2023 Share Posted February 26, 2023 Just now, Stan said: Put your money where your mouth is! Donate I'm obviously bluffing, apologies. I'm just a bit rattled. I don't mind donating a bit though soon, if I'm not banned by then that is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
N U F C Posted February 26, 2023 Share Posted February 26, 2023 What a load of babble Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Subscriber nudge+ Posted February 26, 2023 Subscriber Share Posted February 26, 2023 4 minutes ago, Stan said: Put your money where your mouth is! Donate Agreed. I'll send you my GoFundMe link, @Goku de la Boca 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goku de la Boca Posted February 26, 2023 Share Posted February 26, 2023 Apologies for my behaviour today by the way lads. I strongly disagree with what happened still but I probably shouldn't have reacted in the way I did. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goku de la Boca Posted February 26, 2023 Share Posted February 26, 2023 4 hours ago, Spike said: Interruptions or people that often do that, really don’t realise they are doing it. It stems either from their own lack of understanding social cues or excitement. I can get interruptive when I’m excited by a topic. So don’t take it personally, depending on the situation it could just mean people are having fun and are stimulated Just saw this. I do it too, and yeah I don't realize it, but I try to cut it out more than I used too. I felt very uncomfortable last night, also by the fact that 3 people who said they were on the way and I thought were my friends no-showed. I had a good amount of people though so maybe it was a blessing in disguise more didn't go. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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