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And in case that doesn't work out, there's always other planets for potential relationships. I'd recommend Neptunian ones, personally.

Two girls, 17 years of age and 7 years of age.. You'd think the 17 year old would be making me lose sleep at night, you'd be wrong in thinking that. She's the most laid back character I've ever met and is due to start Uni in August. She's had a boyfriend but he seemed a nice lad and she seems more interested in her education at the moment. The 7 year old on the other hand was born about ten years older mentally and loves nothing more than to boss me and my missus about. Only last week I'd gone up to turn her TV off in her room and tell her to read and get to sleep, anyway 10pm I hear a noise upstairs, walks in her room she's got her tv on, netflix watching tv with the volume turned down. Her reply to me was, no kids my age are asleep yet!!! She's 7, needless to say the TV was quickly removed and has only been returned the evening before last.

You would advise against most people, male or female, walking home alone in the dark if they could avoid it, but the point is that women have to take a lot more precaution than men when they shouldn't have to. The problem is with this message is that blokes who aren't ever going to cause anyone any harm are both the ones who will take that message seriously, whilst also not being the ones that really need to hear it. Let's be optimistic and choose to believe that there are some fundamentally good men out there who just don't understand how their behaviour can intimidate women at times who can learn lessons from the discussion around this incident and change their behaviour accordingly. I do think there's value in what one or two people have suggested which is that if you find yourself walking behind or towards a woman on her own, especially at night, then cross the road where possible so that she doesn't have to worry about it. That doesn't cost much and can make a small difference in terms of the stress for them. We as men can't control or alter the behaviour of our peers much of the time, we can influence a small group of friends at best and the sons many of us raise by setting a good example, but beyond that we can still listen, reflect on our behaviour and adjust accordingly if we can, as tempting as it is to shrug it off in the knowledge that we would never actually harm or intentionally intimidate a woman ourselves.

Due to derailing of this topic, and not honouring the memes and good vibes policy, this topic is locked until further notice.

I often blame Uni being online for my being an old fuck.

It really is great. I was a bit skeptical at first, thought it would be too silly, but it is so well written... The balance is just right - you have an interesting concept and story, some silly gags, some clever humour, plenty of subtle (and sometimes not so subtle) satire and critique of our society. Pretty lighthearted while also dealing with some serious issues; a really good watch. @Bluewolf can confirm

Cooked myselt a Red Lentil Curry with sweet potatoes today. Had to go to two different shops to get Garam Masala, but it was worth it. One of the best things I've ever eaten. I was really surprised at how rich and flavourful it tasted. I will include this into my regular cycle, so I'll probably eat it every 2-3 weeks now.

@Batard self-facilitates.

I came in here thinking we were going to start a competitor site to mumsnet. Imagine my disappointment.

Jerk of twice a day. Don't make scenarios in your head. You have a woman. Never touch another, even if invited, even if it's a slight gesture. Anything beyond a handshake is gonna put shit in your head

The little ones are 2 weeks old today. Even though I basically don’t sleep...everyday is new and (usually) amazing.

How's it going? Only good vibes and memes in here. No relationship talk, no kids talk.

You would if you woke up next to me everyday

I wouldn't know. I'm usually asleep by then.

Welcome to the world of Indian cooking Looks great, by the way. What did you have it with? Would go well with a nice naan bread or roti/paratha.

That looks tasty... Not a big fan of sweet potatoes, but I love lentils!

Upload on Prime Video. Such an unexpectedly great series... Interesting concept, good humour, great writing. https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7826376/ Can't wait for Season 2...

Tommy for President.

It's ok. But this is a positive vibes topic. I hope you find happiness and all that, but take your sad shit elsewhere.

Let's hope that's the case.. I have survived a lot of things in my lifetime and would be typical to get done in by a vaccine that's supposed to be helping me.... I either want to go out like this... all guns blazing Or in some heroic fashion like this saving people... I don't want to go out like this...

Pregnancy complications fella

I hope to god they look at the offsides and can do something about those ridiculous lines that come out. I've had a gutful of that shit. I accept there will be some that will say 'offside is offside' and all that jazz but it's absolutely sucked the life out of a game seeing goals that to the naked eye seem legit, then these minute lines say no, it's offside by a shoulder, armpit or a knee cap. Just fuck off. I've found that the most frustrating thing above everything and being perfectly honest here, I don't care if someone scores a marginal one against us which the previous VAR lines would have wiped out, if it means we can have a degree of common sense back in the game. What the answer is I don't know, whether you measure from the foot or you thicken the VAR lines like they do in the Eredivisie, whatever it takes to stop these joke decisions. People forget this Sport is supposed to provide entertainment.

If one of them posted what you posted I think I'd have asked for a laugh yeah. But seen as you're attempting to make me seem a creep I think I will pass up commenting in future, maybe talk less about wet pussy's etc.. That way people might be less confused about your boundaries.

Relax, I just found it slightly amusing

Spike is Stateside.

Gonna do a @Tommy and say basically this is what I mean too

What a piece of shit.

Mr Robot is some of the best TV I have watched in a long time. I thought S1 was the best of them all but then they did things as time went on which just kept me hooked.

Outrageous.

You all good mate?

the beast has awakened

Never had hookers. Blackjack maybe. But yea, I know what you mean and I know the feeling. I don't know, I'm mentally ok and getting physically stronger with all my exercising. My confidence is through the roof compared to what it was years ago. I'm going to turn this franchise around.

hookers and blackjack?

I hope he sacked his hairdresser before that photo.

Booooo!

Haven't developed one yet but here's hoping

@nudge Please don't be offended. I understand the differences between the sports. It's just banter!

looks disgusting

The really disappointing and upsetting thing is, this woman did all the right things. Stuck to well lit main roads and wore bright colours, perhaps unintentionally, but nevertheless this seemingly isn’t enough of a deterrent and there’s been some really open exchanges on social media of women’s experiences with men intimidating them or much worse.

This Sarah Everard story is just horrible on so many levels.